I trust you...

I had a best frd in college....lets call her A....I use to tell her everything.....absolutely everything.....After 2nd year....I decided she is not adding any value to my life so I made a call of not hanging out with her anymore....I decided not to hang out with her and I also decided not to tell her about my decision....When i think abt it now....It is one of the most rediculous things I have ever done.... :( ....Ofcourse I never told her abt it....oh well....I never realised this before....We juss werent frds anymore after tat.....

One day....one of my other best frd, lets call him B, asks me "How can you do this to me?....I trusted u...."....apparently....my Best frd A told my best frd B abt some secret....I was very angry and desparate.....I went to A and lashed out....."How can u do this to me....I tursted u....u were my best frd and u are supposed to keep all my secrets....."....And the ans I got frm her was the most rediculous one....she was like..."Why r u lieing abt A?".....I shouted bak saying...."Tats none of ur business....u were supposed to be a frd and u failed me.....tats it....u broke my turst"....

Its been forever for all this to have happened....but still sometimes...I have an urge to set things rite.....Go and talk....argue abt how I trusted....tell them over and over again...."I trusted you"....how do we get out of this....even if we are all grown up, mature and all....still we can never forget the frds who broke our trust.....

What is this Trust?? What does "I trust you" mean?? At times it feels more like a burden than a compliment....what do u mean when u say..."I trust u"....is it plain and simple...I trust u...and i know u will get it/do it.....or is it....I turst u so dont let me down....its ur responsibility....

I have always been big on Trust....I have always talked abt trust.....I have said this a 1000 times to a lot of ppl who are dear to me...."I turst u".....or "I trusted u".....but somehow when i heard the same thing frm some1 else....it sounded a lil ridiculous....it sounded as if....we will never grow up....it sounded as...This trust thing is never gonna let us make the Past go and live in the moment.....

Oh well....if we juss can learn not to confuse trust with love, frdship and relations in general....it will be so much easier and better.....

Girl-friend of the Boy-friend.....;)

I am guessing most of you with a BF or a Husband must have experienced this.....a Girlfriend of ur Boyfriend or Husband who juss doesnt give up...... ;)

Initially, its scary and its annoying.....u get worked up and u hate it a lot.....and eventually it comes down to "Funny"......its funny how these GF of the BF are always trying so hard.....r always trying to prove tat they somehow own the BF/Husband......they r happy saying this over and over tat we know ur BF/Husband better than u do..... :) ......and i keep wondering.....if u know him so well....how come u were/are so dumb to let me have him..... ;) .... ;)

Well, in general, we all females are this way.....we r always jealous of the sis-in-law/bro-in-law/new aunt/new uncle in the begining......we r attention Cravers.....we cant share the limelight....and we always want to be liked by the one we consider imp.....this all looks like the rite thing to do....as we can always have claim on the ppl we love/adore/respect.....we gals dont realise the negative impacts of such behavior till we r at the receiving end.....trust me its not pretty at the receiving end..... :(

So, gals....the next time u claim a best Friend.....plzz be considerate to the GF/wife.....they r not tat bad.....infact they must be pretty gud as the one u like so much, loves them.... :)

Love....Love....Love....!!

Have you ever had a crush on some1??
Have you felt like crying every time this some1 doesnt call or ignores you or just isnt there......?? Have you had the feeling that ur heart is going to burst out and you will always be sad??

Well, I have had all those feelings....when all u can think of is this one person....who doesnt care much.....this has happened to me twice....and I was so sad and disappointed.....i use to feel I am a big loser and I will end up being alone and misreable forever......:(

It's great to love some1....I think juss the idea tat u love some1 is great.....But it's not tat great when the other person doesnt have the same feelings....or mayb they have the same feelings but dont wanna show them....watever it is.....I have realised one thing.....these crushes or so called Love....it makes u lose ur identity.....u cant think straight...it makes u forget all the beautiful things in life....makes u forget all the things u love to do and really want to do.....there is juss one thing......and it is the center of ur universe which is pulling u down.....u go in circles like a tornado....the worst part is.....u know how to end all this and get out of it....but u simply dont do it.....Love is over rated.....Its something every1 is capable of.....every1 has....but still made out to be.....oh...only ppl lucky enuf get love in life......paaaaleeaaaaase.....

Than one fine day.....u meet some1.....this some1 is great.....he/she is this simple down to earth person.....they dont even realise their own grace and impact on others.....:).....u meet them....and suddenly u remember all the things u love in the world.....for me.....it was Pottery, sky-diving, bungee jumping, horror movies.....;).....u juss feel like doing things u always wanted to....and guess wat....this person is always All-In for all the craziness.....and u will be surprised by the compatibility.....or lets juss say...."The Ease"...:)....u can be urself with this person.....oh....sure u can dig ur nose and fart alound....:)

This person makes u feel alive....takes u places....and the best part is....this is Love wothout the heart crunching with pain....no tears and no tornados.....this is more abt the actual things.....like.....living together.....settling ur differences....crying and shouting at times....doing crazy things together.....not worrying abt how u look....mostly concentrating on how u feel.....its juss great.....

I beliv in Destiny.....I have always believed in Destiny....There is a rite time for everything to happen....Patience is the key.....:)