Girl-friend of the Boy-friend.....;)

I am guessing most of you with a BF or a Husband must have experienced this.....a Girlfriend of ur Boyfriend or Husband who juss doesnt give up...... ;)

Initially, its scary and its annoying.....u get worked up and u hate it a lot.....and eventually it comes down to "Funny"......its funny how these GF of the BF are always trying so hard.....r always trying to prove tat they somehow own the BF/Husband......they r happy saying this over and over tat we know ur BF/Husband better than u do..... :) ......and i keep wondering.....if u know him so well....how come u were/are so dumb to let me have him..... ;) .... ;)

Well, in general, we all females are this way.....we r always jealous of the sis-in-law/bro-in-law/new aunt/new uncle in the begining......we r attention Cravers.....we cant share the limelight....and we always want to be liked by the one we consider imp.....this all looks like the rite thing to do....as we can always have claim on the ppl we love/adore/respect.....we gals dont realise the negative impacts of such behavior till we r at the receiving end.....trust me its not pretty at the receiving end..... :(

So, gals....the next time u claim a best Friend.....plzz be considerate to the GF/wife.....they r not tat bad.....infact they must be pretty gud as the one u like so much, loves them.... :)

Happiness !!

Few days bak, Gautam asked me are you "Bigger Bore" as compared to 2 years back....and I said 'No'....I was never a Bore.... ;) ......than he asked me if I am a "Happier Person" as compared to 2 years back.....and I said "Yes".....that got me thinking....Am I a happier person???....What is Happiness??....For me it has always been a relative term.....A few years bak it was always something like: If I get good grades, I am happy....If I meet my close frds everyday, I am happy.....If my father likes me for who I am, I am happy.....If I can contribute positively to the society, I am happy.....If I can make my Mom proud, I am happy.....eventually it became.....If I make my In-laws happy, I am happy.....If I manage not to fight with Gautam for a week, I am happy.....If Gautam surprises me with something, I am happy.....Basically the "I am happy" always comes with an "If"..... :)

What abt all the other times??....I am not unhappy....if I really think abt it....I am tired/bored/angry/frustrated.....but as soon as it come to my mind....unhappy....no I am not unhappy.....its funny.....

Happiness is relative....but even if there is no "If" present for the happiness.....there is no unhappiness.....or mayb its juss the way I think.....I choose not to be Unhappy....Happy or not.... ;)