Monday, August 6, 2007

SoulMate !!

Do u beliv in SoulMate?

I do....but i dont beliv tat solumates are necissarily the ones u love (romantically) and want to spend ur life with....i beliv tat soulmate can be anyone....and also u can have more than one soulmate......

For me.....Soulmate is some1 who knows u inside out....who u can talk to and who can complete ur sentences in the exact same words tat u wud use..... :) .....some1 who understands...and judges....but still accepts....and is in the relationship 100 %.....u can gossip with them and u can tell them ur deepest darkest secrets....w/o the fear of being evaluated who u r based on tat....they will judge u and form an opinion....but tat wont change anything....the relationship wud always be the same..... :)

All this sounds too perfect and too gud to be true.....i always thot abt it tat way....till i realised....i have been blessed with such a "Perfect Soulmate"....i have had this too gud to be true and perfect relationships....oh well.....to my great surprise i still have this perfect relationship going on.... :)

We lived next to my uncle's family....and his daughter and i were very close....though the age difference was considerable....somehow both of us were always on the same page.....we use to hang out together....talk abt a lot of issues....and knew each other and were happy with the way we both were.....and yes....we use to love to Gossip.... ;) .....we were the gossiping buddies....i have had a wonderful relationship with my younger sis....one full of sharing, understanding, hating each other at times....not talking for months at times....the bond has somehow always been the same....no matter wat....

After i got married and moved to the US....i always had a fear tat my relationship with my sis wud changes....we wud juss grow out of it....we wont be able to talk endlessly as we use to....i called her one day to check and ended up talking for 2 hrs....i was so happy and relieved....somethings never change....we were laughing the whole time and we were talking abt everything and every1....gossiping and imitating ppl....it was juss wonderful.....i make it a point to call her once in a while and catch up....we talk abt our lives abt our situations....abt achievements and abt failures.....we juss understand each other and even if we r miles and miles apart, we support each other thru better and worse.....she is a wonderful person....i have learned so much frm her....we were unseparable and we still are unseparable..... :)

It feels like grace to have a wonderful soulmate.....who is always with you.....I consider myself lucky to have met some1 like tat and luckier to have had the opportunity to actually spend some great years with this person....part of who i am and what i am is bcoz of her....thanx for making me a better person and keeping me sane on a lot of occasions.... :)

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